As we grow and develop, we realize the importance of relationships and how good it is to share life with others. Love is a feeling that puts us directly in connection with our pulsating energy, with the beauty of being alive, and with our part that can only be recognized through our experience with others.
The Love Synastry is a subject that arouses a lot of curiosity among astrology lovers, because it analyzes the power of the meeting between the couple’s charts.
This is a technique that studies the combination between two or more Charts, depending on the number of people involved in the analysis, and shows us the connections and interrelationships.
In this analysis, the horoscope of one person will be studied over the horoscope of the other, and from there the combinations, connections and also the challenging points will be observed.
In love we have one of the greatest energetic exchanges. They are what make one person feel attracted and want to unite with the other.
With the study of the Love Synastry for a couple, we can understand how the relationship with each other happens, what the potency of this encounter is, what the zones of growth and creativity are between the couple, and also which areas will require more attention and work, so that the relationship flows harmoniously.
In order to make the study of the Love Synastry, it is essential to analyze some planets in the charts of those involved (Moon, Venus, Mars and Lilith), the Astrological Houses 5 and 7, and the aspects that show how the planets in the analyzed charts interact among themselves.
With this reading you will better understand how this technique works and how it can facilitate a love relationship.
Remember that it is fundamental to know yourself and your own chart before trying to understand the other person’s universe. The compass of love is self-knowledge.
The Moon in Synastry
Welcoming and nurturing
The Moon is welcome, nourishment, home and involvement. Our emotional expressions are determined by it, the sign and sector where it is located in the chart. It represents what touches us emotionally, how we express
we express what we feel and our emotional needs.
In Synastry, observing the position of the Moon at the crossing of the Charts enables the understanding of where the creation of the bond occurs, the will to stay with the other person, to care for him/her and receive all the nourishment and emotional fulfillment we seek in order to feel loved.
Venus in Synastry
Attraction and partnership
In astrology, Venus is the planet that represents the power of encounters, the motivations that make us feel attracted to a certain person, which is essential for the relationship to happen, and even for it to last. It is the partnership in the deepest aspect of the encounter.
Observing where Venus is located in the Synastry makes us understand how the “connection” between the couple happens, and what is the best way to nurture the relationship.
Also, in this area where it is located, we are welcoming and feel that the couple’s life gains fuel and confidence to move forward.
Mars in Synastry
The power of attraction
Mars represents masculine energy, strength and courage, the drive of sexuality. The sign where Mars is located points out how and where we manifest energy, the desire that pulsates and what makes us attracted to each other, as well as the chemistry that keeps the relationship going.
It is the planet that symbolizes genuine expression, the impulses that come from the heart.
Where we have Mars we gain self-assertion, have initiative, and ensure individuality, which is so important to maintain in a two-way relationship. We are driven by passion, but without losing ourselves.
The connections between Mars and Venus are complementary in that, from them, we can understand what connects us and keeps us connected to each other.
In the Love Synastry chart, the location of Mars will point out how we awaken and have the impulse that draws us to each other and how to keep the passion burning.
Lilith in the Synastry
The libido and the challenges of helplessness
Lilith is a virtual point in the Chart that represents attraction, but here what drives the attraction are the hidden sexual and libidinal desires that are so repressed in the face of taboos.
The forces involved in this attraction are beyond the control of the parties.
Since it deals with unconscious matters and repressed desires, the location and aspects formed by Lilith in the Synastry require a lot of attention, since at these points the person can experience submission or not within the relationship due to inhibition of their own desires.
The feeling of helplessness can also be experienced in this sector of the chart as a result of not accepting the essential desires within a relationship, which can cause separations. By understanding the other we can welcome what is helpless.
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Where passion and partnership manifest:
House 7 – The Choice
Similar to the energy of the planet Venus, the 7th house is related to partnerships, commitments, and marriage.
Opposite to the 1st House, where we build our personality and learn to act in the world based on our own style, the 7th house is the house of the descendant, where we seek in the other characteristics that are in our shadow and learn, with this other person and in the art of relating with him/her, to be more and more ourselves.
It is the choice of what is fundamental in a person to be with him/her, the attraction that awakens in us. A complementation of what is missing in us.
In the 7th house we develop even more our “I”, we learn that there is another who also has his or her own particularities, and we realize how important it is to have a relationship and the consciousness of a “we”.
In Synastry we can observe, through the aspects, how we interact with this sector of the other’s life and the best way to create a more lasting bond in this partnership.
House 5 – The art of falling in love
The 5th house is a sector of the chart associated with matters of the heart, creativity, and children. In this House we are vibrant, we learn to recognize our own value, we open ourselves to passions, we discover and enjoy pleasure.
The sign and planets located in this House will give the tone of how the person lives the passions in his/her life, and what makes him/her fall in love.
In Synastry we can observe, through the aspects, what makes the other person fall in love and how to keep the passion vibrant and intense over time.
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Astrological Aspects in Synastry
The Chart’s Connections
Another point of extreme importance in the analysis of a Synastry is the conjunction in the same position between the planets of the charts under study.
The conjunction between a planet from one person’s chart with a planet from the other’s chart indicates the similarity of a very particular energy for this couple, setting the tone of the encounter.
Example: Conjunction between Moon and Venus – there is a great welcoming, the will to be together, an intimacy that makes it seem that these people have known each other for some time, and much stimulus to the libido.
The opposition between the planets at the crossing of the Charts indicates that there is a complementation of energies in that sector. The other aspects will also be analyzed, indicating the dynamics of the relationship.
Interactivity – the exchange of energies:
Another way to analyze the affinity of the couple and how the exchange of energy between them happens or not is through the interaction between the elements and modalities of the signs where the stars and main points of the chart are located, for example, the ascendant.
The degree of interactivity is evaluated by the intersection between the elements and modalities of these points. If there are fluid exchanges, they will provide reserves so that the couple can better deal with the relationship and even be nourished to face the challenges in the areas that require more care.
Interactions can happen by similarity, by complementarity, and by difference. In the latter case, there is a greater possibility of noise between the couple.
It is worth pointing out that there is no best combination, and even in cases of similarity, the couple may “clash”.
Does the best sign for a relationship exist?
A very frequent question asked by astrology lovers is about which sign is the best for a relationship.
We must pay attention to the fact that we are a mixture of all signs, having all of them in our chart, pointing to the energy that manifests itself in each sector of our life. And so is the person we attract, a mixture of all signs.
So, there is no best sign to relate to. What will determine a better fluency and potentiality of the relationship are, besides the energies involved between the signs, the will of the parties to make the relationship work.
The Love Synastry, as seen, involves much more than the simple analysis of compatibility between signs. It is all the interactions made when analyzing one Sign over the other and, based on this, directing the way to expand the potency of the encounter.
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